These settings are under the View tab of Solid Edge Options:
Tip: You can use the Command Finder at the bottom of the Solid Edge screen to find where Solid Edge options are.
The command finder can also start found commands.
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Your options still show reference plane shading is not checked.
Just an inch above this setting is the Application Display area;
Check OFF 'Automatic Selection' and from the pull-down list, select 'Graphics Card Driven (Advanced)'
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