You should have a data management DVD in your package. It's there.
Edit: Or, assuming you have maintenance you can download it from the Siemens website. Path below is to the ST9 MP4 Insight _Server location.
First, I don't think the second part of my answer the Siemens path was correct if that's just a patch for Insight Server.
But to your current quandary, you are past the point where I would be on the phone with my VAR or GTAC.
I can only recommend to talk to someone with know how in this area.
Setting up a server just with a chat in in a forum is challenging.
Is is not only about setting up the server it going further with configuration and data migration.
Access control is in more than 80% of our support cases an issue. This can be difficult and sometimes the user locked out themselves after misconfiguration.