Wire harness component names in part file not assembly

We are trying to route wires for our boards in an assembly in Solid Edge.  The problem we came up with is that we use a few connectors multiple times in the assembly of the boards.  This allows us to have the harness wizard limit us to select the correct connector part number but not auto select the connectors.  What we would like to do is define the componentID or component name in the assembly this would allow SE to auto connect all of the wires once the connection and component file are imported.  We are looking at saving each plug as a unique part number and assigning the component name there but this would inhibit using the Solid Edge Bill of Material for a parts list.