This select option does what it says. If you only want to select that which is fully enclosed by the box then do no t select the icon. If, however, you want to select things which are fully enclosed in the box as well as those things which the box touches then select the icon. You might think of this option as being "I want to select everything which is connected or local to the thing I am selecting."
This video might make it clearer.
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